André told me that he wants to go to the Sexpo, South Africa’s largest sexuality exposition at Cape Town’s International Convention Centre (CTICC). When I pick him up on Sunday afternoon his girlfriend lies in bed. She just came back from work and points out that she’s too tired to join. ‘Don’t get drunk!’ she says . . . → Read More: My Sexpo Experience: A Closer Look at Cape Town’s Sex Fair
I sit in my car with David. It is his last day before he is about to leave to Eastern Cape to work with his brother. He says “I am ashamed of not being able to provide a home for my kids. Sometimes I think I must just start to rob again. But on the other . . . → Read More: Men’s Work Ethic
Tonight it is movie night like every night for the Van der Merwe family. Hundreds of Hollywood productions burned on CD are piled up next to the television. The couple is sitting on the large pink couch and Dudrik, George’s brother, on the two-seater, opposite to my comfy chair. They had obtained the whole set for . . . → Read More: Afrikaner Identity: Out of fashion?